That "friendly" greeting is building a reactive ticking time bomb. Here is the secret to true calm.
We're told more meetings equal a better dog. But forced interactions often create over-arousal and anxiety instead of confidence.
If your dog expects play every time they see a stranger, they'll bark and lunge when they can't reach them. It's not aggression—it's frustration.
True socialization means your dog sees the world as background noise. Cyclists, kids, and dogs become irrelevant to them.
In a world of distractions, you must be the highest-value reward. Your dog should choose you over the chaos every single time.
Sit on a park bench 20 feet (6 meters) from the action. Don't engage. Just watch the world go by while staying relaxed.
Mark the exact second your dog notices a distraction but stays calm. Reward the choice to look away and check in with you.
If your dog is staring or refusing food, you're too close. Move back until they can think and listen again.
Parking lots are perfect training grounds. Carts and doors provide noise; your car provides a safe, controlled bubble.
Visit a cafe. Your goal isn't pets from strangers—it's for your dog to lie down and do absolutely nothing while you eat.
Stress builds up. One loud car plus one missed nap equals a meltdown. If the stress bucket is full, just go home.
It's mastering it. A neutral dog is a free dog, able to go anywhere because the world no longer overwhelms their senses.
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