Stop saying 'Sit' three times.

If your dog only listens when you have a treat in your hand, you don't have a dog problem. You have a language problem.

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They are watching your hands

Dogs process visual signals faster than words. This is 'overshadowing.' If your hands move while you speak, they are likely ignoring your voice entirely.

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The 'Hands in Pockets' test

Next time you are at a backyard BBQ, try giving a command with your hands in your pockets. If they look lost, they never actually knew the verbal cue.

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Honda vs. Tesla

Your cues must sound distinct. To a dog, 'Stay' and 'Okay' sound nearly identical. If your words blur together, your pet will just start guessing.

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Use 'Hard' consonants

Sharp sounds like 'K,' 'T,' and 'S' cut through the noise of a busy Target parking lot. Words like 'Kick' or 'Touch' are much easier for dogs to isolate.

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Did you poison the cue?

If you only yell 'Come' when it is time to leave the park and end the fun, that word now means 'the party is over.' Soon, they will stop coming entirely.

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The 14-day verbal reset

To fix a 'muddy' word, stop using it for two weeks. Switch to a brand-new sound like 'Floor' instead of 'Down' to bypass the old, confused neural pathways.

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Proof it at Home Depot

Training in your kitchen is easy. Real mastery happens when your dog can discriminate cues at a pet-friendly Home Depot surrounded by carts and chaos.

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Say it once. Just once.

If you say 'Sit, Sit, Sit,' you are teaching them to wait for the third time. Say it once, wait 5 seconds, and let them think. Don't be a broken record.

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The 'Oops' technique

Use a 'no-reward marker' like 'Oops' if they miss the cue. Reset the session by walking away for a moment. It forces them to value the first signal given.

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Check the 'Check Engine' light

Sudden ignoring of cues? It might be physical. An ear infection or joint pain can make a dog slow to respond. Rule out health issues before blaming attitude.

This isn't stubbornness. It is a bridge.

Your dog wants to win. When you use distinct, crisp signals, you aren't just giving orders—you're finally building a language you both actually understand.

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