Is your new whānau member terrified?

The first 72 hours can create a lifetime of anxiety. One quiet room changes everything.

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Cortisol: The invisible enemy

Your home is a 'scent wall' of noise and newness. To your pet, it's not a house—it's a sensory assault that spikes their stress hormones for days.

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Find the 'Path of Least Disturbance'

Skip the open-plan lounge. Pick a secondary bedroom or laundry at least 4 metres from the front door. The postie's bike shouldn't trigger a panic attack.

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Rug up for quiet paws

Hard timber floors amplify every 'click-clack' of their claws. Grab a thick rug or carpet offcut from Mitre 10 to muffle the sound of footsteps.

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Kill the 'Postie Trigger' with film

Scanning windows for threats keeps them on edge. Use window frosting film from Kmart so they can't see birds or pedestrians outside.

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The 2700K rule for lighting

Harsh overhead lights flicker in ways animals hate. Use a warm-toned lamp. It mimics the safety of a natural den and signals it's time to sleep.

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The 'Sound Floor' strategy

Don't aim for total silence—it makes every dropped spoon scary. Use a white noise machine to mask the rumble of State Highway 1.

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Neutralise the 'Scent Wall'

Ditch the citrus cleaners and candles. Use unscented, enzyme-based cleaners. Let their nose find 'nothing' so they can finally stop searching for danger.

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Plug in the peace

Adaptil or Feliway diffusers from your local vet mimic a mother's calming pheromones. Plug it in 24 hours before they arrive for a head start.

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Watch for the 'Hyper-Vigilant' twitch

If their ears are constantly flicking or they're pacing the perimeter, the zone is too loud. Move them further back or increase the white noise.

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The 'Slow Thaw' transition

After 3 days, crack the door. Let them explore on their own terms. Never pull them out; their sanctuary must always be their choice.

This isn't just a room. It's a reset.

By controlling the light, scent, and sound, you aren't just 'keeping them quiet.' You are giving their nervous system permission to trust you.

Prepare for Day One

Get the shopping checklist for your sanctuary and the 'Rule of Three' timeline for New Zealand pets.

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